15 Signs Of Hidden Depression


Depression Signs

When you hear the word “depression,” what comes to mind? Some people believe that depression is sadness, dressing in black or crying. However, that is rarely the truth.

Depression is actually a serious medical illness that can have a negative impact on the way you act, feel and think. It’s the persistent feeling of being numb and exhausted. Perhaps you post a picture on Facebook on a daily basis, but you do not speak to your family and friends for days under the excuse of ‘I was too busy.‘ But, not having deep and meaningful conversations with your loved ones may lead to loneliness and even depression. Being stressed out on a regular basis may also increase your risk of this mental illness. Also, there are many other causes of depression out there, such as: brain chemicals, genetics, past events, alcohol and drug use, and more.

If you have these behaviors or habits, you may have depression:

15. Not wanting to leave the house

Not Leave

Some people with depression can be housebound for weeks or longer. There are plenty of reasons for this, depending on who you ask. For some, it’s self-hatred. For others, crushing fatigue. Depression has this power to zap not only your will, but also your physical ability to leave the house.

The energy required to go grocery shopping is out of reach. The fear that every person you run into will hate you is real. This thought loop of uncertainty creates an environment where it’s almost impossible to get out the front door.

14. Feeling guilty all the time

Feeling Guilty

Guilt is a perfectly normal feeling. If you do something you regret, guilt will follow. The thing with depression though, is that it can cause feelings of guilt over nothing or over everything.

Feeling guilty is actually a symptom of depression and it’s the reason why when I experience depression, I feel like I’m taking on the ills of the world. For example, people with depression may feel guilty about not being able to help people who are victims of a natural disaster and this, in turn, makes them feel that they’re worthless. Of course, feeling guilty about things closer to home, such as feeling incredibly guilty over a disagreement, is even more common.

13. Not bothering to keep up good hygiene

Good hygiene is supposed to be a given. Shower every day or close to it. Brush your teeth, do your hair, and take care of your body. But when depression comes around, those affected might stop showering — for weeks even, if the episode lasts that long. It sounds “gross” but that’s what depression does. It can make someone too sick to shower.

Sometimes the pounding water is physically painful. Sometimes getting naked hurts. The idea of a shower can bring on feelings of worthlessness. You may not even feel like you’re worthy of being clean. The same goes for other tasks like brushing your teeth or washing your face. Depression may simply turn acts of self-care into draining activities we simply don’t have the energy to do.

12. You have unusual sleeping habits

Sleeping Habits

People need about eight hours of sleep a night, right? Well, that might be true for most, but people with severe depression may find it hard not to sleep all day. At other times you go on days without sleep.

Often when people with depression wake up, they don’t feel rested at all. They don’t feel like they’ve slept. They have no energy and are still sleepy. This leads to nap after nap after nap, with no amount of sleep seeming to produce a rested feeling.

11. Being convinced everyone hates you

Being Convinced

In life, some people will like you and some people will not. This is normal, right? In a healthy mindset, most people will accept the positives with the negatives. But depression is like the devil on your shoulder, whispering until people hate themselves and are convinced that everyone else hates them too.

Depression points out every tiny, perceived, possible slight and uses this as “evidence” that everyone hates you. This perception of hate tends to make people with depression feel even more depressed.

10. Not cleaning your home for months at a time

Much like the daunting task of taking a shower — vacuuming, dusting, and cleaning can seem right out of the question. Apathy is a common feeling with depression. Some depressed people may not even feel worthy of a clean living environment.

Apathy can numb our senses and erase rotten smells, because we think we belong with the trash. Or we think we can do it later, because we figure the depressive episode might pass. Depression takes up so much of our energy — emotional and physical — that we have to choose how we use it and sometimes that leaves cleaning at the bottom of the priority list.

9. You’re an expressive and talented person

Talented Person

We aren’t trying to say that sadness can make you talented. We are trying to say that if you have depression, you tend to be expressive when you’re given a chance and freedom to express yourself in a certain field. The world has been blessed with some of the most amazing gems, such as Jim Carrey, who have succeeded in overcoming their depression. Perhaps it helped them feel things more deeply and it’s exactly what they portrayed in their works.

8. You’re always ready for the worst

Always Ready

You’re prepared for everything. However, it does not mean that it hurts any less.

7. You have unusual eating habits

Depression Eating

Sometimes you can go a whole day without eating, whereas sometimes you can eat too much. Your emotions may have an impact on your eating habits.

6. You have abandonment issues

You do not fully trust anyone. You’re not an emotionally secure person.

5. You try to find meaning in everything

Meaning Everything

You doubt everything and do your best to find answers. You usually try to find meaning in everything.

4. Thinking isn’t a choice for you

Sitting Thinking

Your mind is a messy place. You’re continually swimming in between a pool of thoughts. This simply does not stop, regardless of what you do.

3. You’re good at hiding your emotions

Hiding Emotions

You’re good at hiding your emotions. It does make you wear a mask, which may stay for too long, so that you even forget what you actually look like.

2. You have a high defense mechanism

Defense Mechanism

You probably have high walls built for yourself that prevent others from reaching out to you. You may cover up for anything. As we have already mentioned, you’re great at hiding your emotions.

1. You cry for help secretly

Cry Secretly

Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on from time to time. But, you cry for help secretly. You don’t ask for help, although you actually need it the most.

What people with depression hope you can understand

It’s not the greatest to have these things in common — for these to be things that people with depression bond and empathize over. But hopefully this helps others who don’t know what it’s like to understand why we might fall off the radar or show up a little unkempt sometimes. We’re fighting these feelings every day.

Sometimes, something as simple as paying bills can be considered a win.

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